You want a soft peaceful life, but your nervous system says the opposite. Here’s how to tell:
You may dream of waking up to the sound of birds, with golden sunlight streaming in through the curtains with no urgent place to be…
Or breathing deeply in a cozy, sanctuary-like home, with the smell of citrus and pine, exactly reflecting your inner calm
But if your nervous system is wired for the OPPOSITE, here’s how you know my dear:
You feel restless when you don’t have anything to do.
You may take a day off or two, delegate your tasks to your teammates, or even book a luxury retreat for a vacation.
But if your nervous system doesn’t feel safe slowing down, you will find yourself thinking what’s “next” on your to-do list,
or even worse beat yourself up for taking rest because now you feel like you’re “behind” in your launch, your content, or your income goals.
You are afraid of saying “no” even when it drains you.
You may find yourself going along with team meetings, networking events, client requests, or social plans…
even though they don’t actually light you up inside.
And it’s not because you aren’t capable—
in fact, you are deeply intuitive, hardworking, and emotionally attuned.
But when your nervous system is wired for survival, it’s easy to over-pile what’s on your plate,
because a part of you is afraid of being forgotten, falling behind, or losing your momentum.
Your mind can’t stop thinking about what could go “wrong”
“Will my team be able to keep up if I take a rest?”
“Will my client get upset if I don’t respond right away?”
“Will everything fall apart if I stop showing up for even one day?”
These are the many unspoken yet deeply felt burdens that so many high-functioning, heart-led women carry—especially when they take time to rest, even when their body feels tired, exhausted, and emotionally numb.
My love, these deep-rooted patterns aren’t your personality traits.
They are reflections of how your unconscious mind is sabotaging the soft, peaceful life you most deeply want to live.
And with these underlying patterns in place, you can’t just willpower your way to finally achieve peace “someday.”
Because the truth is— if you don’t feel safe receiving rest now, you won’t feel safe resting when you have millions in your bank account, your dream team in place, or a waitlist full of clients either.
Which is why the key to having softness and rest— not just when you’ve hit your launch goal, or cleared your inbox,
but to have peace and softness with every decision you make,
every boundary you hold,
every yes and no from your heart—
is to understand what’s driving the restlessness at the root.
Only then you can release it, and feel safe being who you are without having to earn it.
My love, if that’s what you’re desiring, I’m sending personalized voice note readings of your unconscious mind right here so you can map out the next steps to the soft, peaceful life your soul is truly calling in.
