Truths about feminine energy
A collection of short writings related to feminine energy
Shadows of the feminine
In the coaching industry, I think that the term “feminine energy” gets a bad rep because we’ve been taught the shadows of the feminine
Which can lead to things like, being in a chaotic mess with no structure, while feeling anxious and uncertain about the future
Or relying all on energy “to manifest” without taking action from our part
This is made worse especially when we are fed with the image on social media that
— all you need to do is lie in the bathtub all day and “seduce” potential clients to make thousands of dollars everyday
Because the truth is, when we are trying to embody feminine energy to manifest what we want, most of the times, it is coming from a place of avoidance
Such as avoidance to work
Avoidance to creating content/offers
Avoidance to being of service
Avoidance to action
For example, in business this can looking like selling all the time without offering much value/substance in free content
— that is, only looking to receive without giving much
This can make us further disconnected to our hearts, and thereby become more unfulfilled as we try to achieve/manifest what we want
When the truth is, deep down in the heart of the feminine is love
Meaning, feminine energy is about loving it all, even the hard parts, the ‘grind’ of our business
Which leads to,
Taking action in our business from love
Creating what we love from love
Giving from love
This is when hearts are purified and we then naturally become receivers of our hearts’ desires
Without striving
Without forcing
Because everyone, including our potential clients can 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍 love.
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Feminine being vs doing
We’ve been taught that if we relax into the feminine, we’ll do no “strategic” things in business and get nothing done
But it’s actually far from truth because your feminine essence is what allows you to discern most meaningful to you in your life/ your business and drop the rest
She finds the sacred in the slowness and through that,
deep insights, wisdom, and healing emerge
Where your creativity overflows, like springwater, leading to actions that revives the heart of your business
Thus, moving what’s most important in your business in a more focused, heart-felt, life-giving fashion…
it’s only when we feel ashamed of the feminine slowness and don’t trust her way of action
(Which is common especially in today’s rapid-speed chasing society and social media)
That we freeze, overthink ourselves, and become tensed up; leading to the phenomenon of
“getting nothing done.”
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The need to be masculine to be successful
In a world dominated by go-go-go mentalities and prides on hustling and moving fast in business,
We’ve been taught that as women, you have to be in your masculine if you want to be successful
And that if you want relax too much in your feminine, you’re going to get nothing done and become a victim of your feelings
And so a lot of women find themselves pedaling on the hamster wheel chasing for success, while feeling empty and discontent on the inside, like they are never getting “there”
When the truth is, my love, the feminine is what nourishes us.
Without the feminine, we become “lamborghinis” running on empty fuel.
Carrying an image of glamor and wealth on the outside, but feeling depleted, overwhelmed, and rushed on the inside,
With all the things you need to be/do/have in order to get to (insert number) figure months
That’s because we become disconnected to our true nature— the feminine that creates life through the slow, the sensitive, the sensual
This is where the source of your creations are found, and is the source of where ALL creations are found.
When you find that, you overflow. In a way where you can’t help but express, create, and share all the art/ the content/ the creations you most desire most,
Where you can’t help but bring forth the desires of your heart,
without the burden of force and control from your part.
